Bedtime Stories Are Being Abandoned
Dads are abandoning the essential task of reading to their children. Recognised as a key ingredient in a child’s reading development this enjoyable task has fallen by the wayside with 57 percent of Dads. Seven steps to help dads overcome their fear in a simple guide to encourage them to read bedtime stories to their children. How to turn story reading into an educational game.
Point a video camera at anybody and ask them to say something and they inevitably clam up. It’s a natural reaction; most of us don’t want to take centre stage. And it is the same with bedtime stories. To help a child understand the story we should try to use different voices for each character, apply inflection in the narration and worst of all we have to read aloud!
It’s the end of the day, we’re tired, stressed, and
certainly don’t feel the ideal person to read a story. Whereas mums at home tend to take the lead in
early learning with their natural affinity with language development the
bedtime educational story is still a vital support role that dad’s should
play. Stories develop a child’s
imagination, encourages literacy, self expression and an interest in reading –
the backbone of all education.
Step 1. Catch your
breath, relax and take your time. No
point in rushing as you will achieve little apart from disappointing your child
and getting frustrated yourself.
Step 2.Reading aloud may be
awkward initially, with many of us inhibited by the thought of it. But it becomes a lot easier with
practice. Speaking to a video camera involves
ad libing or remembering some lines. Reading a story is easier as the script is right there before you.
Step 3. Try and
develop a different voice for each character. It helps add drama and your child’s understanding of the story. It makes reading easier for you and listening
more fun for the children.
Step 4. Add
inflection to your voice to emphasise the action. Make it sound scary if the villain speaks or
you are setting a key scene in the story.
Step 5. Try listening
to an online story. Many can be found on
the web. Narrated by actors they tell
the story with animated script and give you a great idea of how to read a story out loud.
Step 6. Show your
feelings as you read the story, and ask questions to get your child to join in
“What do you feel about that?”
Step 7. Read some support books such as “Dad did it” by
Chris Wakefield, and “How to enjoy reading aloud to young children” by Alison
Shakespeare.
You have probably presented a report or opinion at work,
school or university. You may have loved
or loathed the experience. Some people
have a natural talent to present; others need a bit of encouragement. Do remember at bedtime you have an intimate
audience of one or two delighted children who also enjoy their time with you.
It induces some quality time with the kids, gives mum a break and acts as a
great transition between work and home. With of practice you will really get to enjoy it.
The literacy trust in the UK have shown that story telling
has a huge influence in a child’s interest in reading. Their literacy skills
gain a leap ahead, and their story telling ability, something that is essential
in the learning process gets a real boost. And it
could all be down to you and a little light fun reading.
Alistair Owens http://www.keen2learn.co.uk


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